Confidence is the foundation for everything in life and it is our confidence or lack of confidence that directly affects our life.
To achieve even the smallest of goals, and to get through life’s duties and responsibilities, you should have a self confident attitude that allows you to was through the push and pull of different voices and opinions telling you ,”yes,no,maybe,do this, do that”, etc. etc. Relying on others to guide you and following thier opinions makes you far from your individuality and can lead to depression.
When we know and appreciate who we are, we feel great about ourselves and make better choices and better decisions too. When we make better choices and decisions we create a better life for ourselves. When we create a better life, we are much happier. Everything is based on our self confidence!
Our confidence is perfectly with us when we are born, but vanishes during our childhood. We lose a little of it when we make mistakes, fail, misbehaves, get in troulbe, feel guilty, or do such things which we are ashamed of. It destroys the confidence of the child. And as we grow up, we can lose more of our confidence by being criticized by others,when we have negative people in our lives, negative self-talk and the main reason is by not acheiving the goals that we set for ourselves.
The most common confidence problems includes, not believing in yourself,fear to lose something,not loving yourself, fear of meeting new people, not being able to say no to others, not being able to get what you want,not be able to fulfil your dreams,not being able to acheive success and many more.
Nothing is more powerful than confidence,and being confident changes everything!
Your confidence is not controlled by anyone else. That means that you have an absolute control and can become confident at anytime in your life, regardless of your past experiences. Its never too late to become confident and live the life you’ve dreamed of! We all deserve to be happy and live the life that we have dreamt of!!
~The Happy Book~